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This page is my "Whatever Happened to Good Ol' What's-His-Name?" page.  It's primarily for those who knew me in times past, but those of you who don't know me may find it at least a curiosity to see who I was back then.  I think everyone enjoys a look at the way we were, and so I'm offering this gallery of pics of me at various stages.  Below the photos, you'll find a review of events in chronological order dating from when I left home for the first time.   

The Baby

The Little Boy

The High Schooler

The Student

Circa 1951

 

 

 

Circa 1958

 

 

 

1968

 

 

 

Christmas, 1970

 

 

 

With Grampa at the Fair

On Aunt Pidy's Couch

Nix the Glasses, Nerdface

Get a Haircut, Freak!

The Soldier

The Director

The Gardener

The Middleager

1973

 

 

 

1982

 

 

 

Circa, 1992

 

 

 

2001

 

 

 

In South Korea

Directing "Dial M for Murder"

In My Garden

You've Come a Long Way, Baby

1968 - 1972
    I will always remember my undergraduate years with a great deal of fondness, both for the many fun times with friends and the enjoyment of working with the Theatre Department at UWSP.  These were the days of staying up until 4:00 a.m. shooting the breeze and then heading out to class at 7:00 a.m. in a daze.  It was an intense time to be young and in school.  I became increasingly political, opposing the war and the draft, all the while knowing that I was heading into the military after graduation.  The year 1972 was one of the most turbulent times of my life, with graduation nearing and my deferment ending.  It would be a year of enormous personal change.  The photo at the left was taken two days before I left for basic training.  It may look like just a ‘60’s kid with a bad haircut.  But, it captured me as I was during these heady years:  rebellious, unfettered, adventurous…looking for change, in short, the way life often is when we are twenty-two years old.  
     

1972 - 1974

 
  I was looking for adventure, but I don’t think this is what I had in mind!  Three words:  scared to death!  That’s how I felt when I stepped off the bus at Ft. Leonard Wood, Missouri, and met a real life drill instructor for the first time.  I would endure basic, and I would move on to advanced training as a surveyor at Ft. Sill, Oklahoma.  From there, I would be sent to Camp Colbern, a small Hawk missile battery southeast of Seoul, South Korea, for a year.  Along the way, I would form some of the closest friendships of my life.  I would soon realize the necessity of deflecting the military bs, and that the times spent with buddies - and, oh, man, were there some times! - and others were what was most enduring.  These were good and bad times.  The initial shock of separation from family and culture when sent 10,000 miles away was very difficult, but I was happy to have experienced life in South Korea.  Upon my return home, after a few months of passing time at Ft. Bragg, North Carolina, I would end my military career in September, 1974.    
1974 - 1979

The 70’s!:  disco, the Arab oil embargo, bad clothes, Mary Tyler Moore, M.A.S.H!  I found myself in Minneapolis in grad school at the University of Minnesota trying to find myself…and never really succeeding.  In retrospect, my two years at Minnesota were unfocused and not satisfying.  My fondest memories are of a great teacher of Ibsen and Strindberg in the Scandinavian Department and my long days sunning at one of the nearby lakes.  I would earn my MFA and leave the Twin Cities in 1977.  In 1978, I came to Madison to work for a special project of the state arts agency; and, like so many others, I fell in love with the place and stayed.  Here was a small city with lakes and beaches, bike routes, a great university, athletic events, and fabulous summers.  Unfortunately, I would soon discover that Madison was not a theatre mecca, and my career dreams would change greatly. 

1980 - 1989

 

"Peugie" Today

 

For six years in the ’80s, I would manage a small professional touring children’s theatre company.  Along with an extremely talented artistic director, we would build the theatre to a yearly season of 300 cutting edge quality performances in states from North Dakota to Illinois.  And, Madison’s arts community would barely notice us.  In 1982, I directed my last play.  I was simply unhappy with it all.  In 1987, I would be hired to manage a small modern dance company and its school.  Three years later, tired of fundraising and feeling greatly like a fish out of water, I would leave my work in the arts and never return.   On happier notes, these were the years I first discovered Department56 and collecting.  And, also, in 1980, for my birthday, I bought an orange Peugeot racing bike, never realizing what a great companion it would be.  Most of the bike’s original parts are still intact, and it is very much rideable today.  It squeaks and groans, especially on hills, but, then again, so does its owner!

 
  1990 - 1999
 

In 1991, after several months of unemployment and near desperation, I was hired to the job I still have today.  It’s an administrative position with an organization that serves the needs of older people.  It is an agency with a heart.  We do important work for a particularly vulnerable population.  These seemed to be years when time sped up.  Hours at the beach, evening bike rides, the fall and winter UW sports activities, my days in the garden, all seemed to fly by.  I became a total UW sports junkie and, rightly so, as the UW won three Rose Bowls, a Heisman Trophy, went to the Final Four, and was a dominant hockey and volleyball program.  (Some of this occurred after 1999.)  On December 31, 1999, I would join thousands of revelers on the rooftop of the Monona Terrace Convention Center to watch the fireworks and to pass on with them into a new millennium.  The ‘90s would go by much too quickly!

 
 

The 2000s

 
 

So, here I am, 59 years old…and ready for the downhill plunge?  I don’t think so!  My life is dominated by what you will find in the pages of this web site:  my garden, my collectibles and the writing I've been doing.  I still spend hours riding my bike in warm weather.  In the winter, I venture over for basketball and hockey games at the UW, where I am an enthusiastic season ticket holder in four sports.  Here’s a shock for those who knew me in high school:  I no longer play golf and have not even hit a ball in twelve years!   

From time to time, I think of all the people who have come into and gone out of my life or are still a part of it today.  I miss many of you whom I haven’t seen for so long.  I thought I’d end by naming you (excluding family) in a kind of chronological order post high school, including some who I know are no longer living.  Thanks for many fond remembrances to:  Steve L., Danny N., Jim R., Ginny S., Ross S., Bob B., Frieda B., Alice P.F., Seldon F., Tony S., Annette S., Roger S., Stan K., Chuck Lorna and little Chris W., Jim C., Mike I., Delbert C., Diane D., Jan I., Bob S., Tim C., Goran S., Wes B., Stan G., Lynn N., Steve K., Gary H., Pat B., Dennis D., Bill S., Bob B., Mary Jane K., Jane E., Chris S., Mike B., Mike T., Ron F., Joyce L., Miriam S., Barb D., June O., and Marilyn W.

If any of you or anyone else who recognizes me discovers this site, please say hello at the Contact page.  It would be so great to hear from you!

 
 

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